What is Hackers' Pub?

Hackers' Pub is a place for software engineers to share their knowledge and experience with each other. It's also an ActivityPub-enabled social network, so you can follow your favorite hackers in the fediverse and get their latest posts in your feed.

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這幾年開始在幫人做成人依附訪談,協助他人重新認識自己,看見自己的過去經驗如何型塑出現在的自己。然後一起思考如果不想要繼續這樣,那可以怎麼做。

其中有一個朋友是這樣的。他過去在人際關係上常常遇到挫折,跟朋友建立起友好關係之後常常會接著發生對方跟自己漸行漸遠的情況。他不知道是怎麼回事。

我問他以前發生這樣的事情時會怎麼做。他說會回去跟家人說。

「那家人會怎麼協助你?」
「家人會說,不要跟朋友太親密,太靠近。你註定要受傷的。」

???這種協助很明顯沒有幫上忙。

於是我追問:「這位協助你的家人,他的人際關係如何?他有很多朋友嗎?他是個很懂得如何跟朋友維繫關係的人嗎?」

「恩.. 他好像也沒什麼朋友。」

「如果他自己也不是很擅長人際關係,那你認為他的意見有多少值得參考的價值?」

朋友陷入深思。

很多時候,我們很容易給出一些建議,提供自己的意見。但我們真的有想過自己的建議跟意見,有多少參考價值嗎?

因為工作的關係,我很常提出我的意見、看法,甚至是建議。但現在我學會了跟對方說:這只是我個人的意見或看法,如果你覺得有幫助,值得參考,那就拿去用。如果你認為沒有價值,那就丟掉。

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RE: mastodon.social/@hootalex/1160

I love Alex's art and have very happily purchased some of it! I'm really happy to hear that he's found success being on here, and really encourage every bird lover as well as everyone else to check out his shop:

pigeonpost.cafe

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Mole - Mac을 깊게 청소하고 최적화하는 올인원 도구
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- macOS의 *불필요한 파일과 성능 저하 문제를 해결해주는 도구* 로, 다양한 청소·분석·최적화 기능을 단일 실행 파일로 제공
- *CleanMyMac, AppCleaner, DaisyDisk, iStat Menus* 등의 기능을 통합한 *올인원 툴킷*
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Deep cleaning : 캐시, 로그, 브라우저 잔여 파일 등을 스캔해 수십 GB의 공간 확보 지…
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https://news.hada.io/topic?id=26527&utm_source=googlechat&utm_medium=bot&utm_campaign=1834

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今日からなにをするのかを選ばないといけない気持ちが強いです。

「絶望」と向き合うことは大事です。でも私は向き合うというのは「気持ちと戦う」というより、「何かを失った気持ちを受け入れて悲しむ」の意味だと思います。そして涙を流して、悲しみまで流すことが大事だです。流しきったら、そこからは一歩一歩で考えればいいと思います。

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이재명 대통령이 2차 종합특검 후보로 민주당이 아닌 조국혁신당 추천 권창영 변호사를 낙점한 이유가 뒤늦게 공개되었습니다. 민주당이 추천한 전준철 변호사가 이 대통령에게 불리한 증언을 한 김성태 전 쌍방울 회장 변호인단 출신이라는 사실과, 그를 추천한 인물이 ‘친정청래계’ 이성윤 최고위원이라는 점이 알려졌습니다.

당대표가 견제? 이 대통령, ‘쌍방울 변호사’ 특검 추...

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今日からなにをするのかを選ばないといけない気持ちが強いです。

「絶望」と向き合うことは大事です。でも私は向き合うというのは「気持ちと戦う」というより、「何かを失った気持ちを受け入れて悲しむ」の意味だと思います。そして涙を流して、悲しみまで流すことが大事だです。流しきったら、そこからは一歩一歩で考えればいいと思います。

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It's crazy how much these superbowl commercials are just beautifully rendered vingettes tied to core human emotions and needs like community or family or confidence or agency and they just stick a logo in there, hoping our little pattern-making brains will associate the brand with our core needs and the ads cost like a million dollars so I guess it fucking works.

@shaunaShauna GM I was done forever with the NFL over what they did to Colin Kaepernick. And look at this man:

The independent autopsy, conducted later, was paid for by civil rights activist Colin Kaepernick, a former NFL quarterback.

I wish I had even a fraction of Colin's bravery. So yeah, no NFL for me personally, ever again. I can't do it.

mississippitoday.org/2025/10/2

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I'm watching Bad Bunny perform on the TV (I'm a bar writing), and it's awesome and it's reminding me of how batshit it is that puerto ricans can't vote in federal elections in the US

what ... what is the putative argument for that? I mean know the actual reason is a historic and *radioactive* level of racism on the part of the republican party, but ...

... what's the polite reason, given out loud by supposedly Veddy Serious People?

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The Winter Olympics ad focused on USA victories.

And honestly, that violates the spirit of the Olympics.

Yeah, national pride is great and all, but that's speeding straight into plain ol nationalism.

We should celebrate all human good. Not just the ones that promote pride over others. That's not human good.

That's hate.

I feel like we've lost the spirit of what this even means.

Celebrate amazing humans doing amazing things.

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