@KatyElphinstone Perhaps I’m betting on a stereotype here, and YMMV, but are there a board game meetups, anime clubs, entomology associations, or similar special interest organisation (whatever floats tou boat) in Belfast? It’d supprise me if a city of 350k people did not have at least one.
Not an answer to the question you asked exactly, but my very brief experience with ND org. meetups is that having the same difficulties with the world is not necessarily a good basis for friendships.
