In the year 2025 of the Common Era, if you don't have a Code of Conduct that requires people to not be sexists or bigots, you're on 2.9999 strikes in my book already.

Don't rely on unwritten rules.

If you can't at least write down on paper "no bigots or misogynist shitheads allowed", then your community is or will become dangerous for me to exist in eventually.

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