It's a VERY difficult thing about adult life and friendship, the way disperate opportunities and downright luck send us into different tracks in life
@NilaJones People really believe it was their hard work that got them ahead. But you can always point to the exact circumstances and turning points where our privileges allowed the hard work to even affect anything in your life.
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