so if i were to rent a "server" for "self hosting",

1) what region/country is least likely to introduce draconian anti-privacy laws? eg, not USA, not EU, not Australia, etc

2) and is moderately unlikely to be walled off from the USA? eg I hopefully wont need to convince my friends who are still waffling on whether the discord real ID thing is a bridge too far how to use tor lol

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