I've finally re-found a talk I think about at least once a week
"But don’t let that distract you; it was designed to kill people."
" Don't Get Distracted " by Caleb Hearth
A deeply important watch for anyone in software/hardware engineering, especially in a AI era
(available in both text or (I highly recommenced) video)
https://calebhearth.com/dont-get-distracted
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