If you are a highly stressful/anxious person who gets thrown off by external factors it is not anyone else's responsibility to deal with your stress/anxiety at work. Deal with your shit yourself and do not put it on any of your co-workers. I, for one, will just ignore you once you go off the deep end in chat or calls.
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