I tried an experiment. For 3 months I made a conscious effort not to use “identity” framing (“I am XYZ”) when describing myself to others, instead using behavioral framing (“I like XYZ” / “I tend to XYZ” / etc.). I wasn’t perfect for sure.

But it was interesting how it changed the way people reacted to me.

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