I completely agree that you gotta make an honest effort at couples counseling before seriously considering divorce. Unfortunately, our couples counselor turned out to be this guy:
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@3dogcouchT&P no one WANTS divorce, but at least we have a great couples counselor! https://infosec.exchange/@codinghorror/116032137073666414