We also recently put out a blogpost and demo of a chat system that *nobody* centrally hosts called "Brassica Chat" https://spritely.institute/news/composing-capability-security-and-conflict-free-replicated-data-types.html
Again, it's a demo, but you can try on it on the page. It combines capability security with cool concepts called CRDTs.
But more importantly, it's a step towards secure communication for a hostile world.