My profile said she/they still, but I have realized for a while that I'm only ok with being called they/them by other queers or people who use they/them *generally* as a gender neutral pronoun very broadly. Seeing myself called "they" in an article, well, based on what I've written I can't fault anyone, but I've realized over time that "I'm she/her as in I'm a woman, but they/them as in fuck the gender binary"

I'm cool with "defaulting to they/them for everyone" but not with "defaulting to they/them just for trans people". I just don't trust someone who isn't also very clearly queer to be on board enough to use they/them for me especially if especially if it's not crystal clear they aren't doing the same for cis people