I shouldn't be so hard on BlueSky/AtProto, I know it's complicated, but I will give them the benefit of the doubt that they really do want to build a better open social web.
The fediverse isn't a competitor, we can and should aim for compatibility/interoperability for the benefit of the people, who we're doing this all for.
But also, should empower them to self-host and manage their own connections independently.
We're the tea, the fediverse has inspired many, together we'll thrive. π