Hard Pills To Swallow: The subscription fees you're still paying for that software you're saying is getting worse and worse are the only signal that matters.
If you don't have a backup plan and a migration strategy you don't have a lever.
@mhoye my brother used to say that if you're not willing to walk away from the table, you're not negotiating: you're begging.
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