I don't know who needs to hear this but
There is no honor in suffering. Denying yourself things that make your life better just because "you don't deserve it" or "someone has it worse" does not, in fact, make the world a better place. You can just do things that make you happy because you want to do them and no extra explanation or deserving is needed
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