uspol, trans safety, more on getting out
If you have a group of people, maybe your polycule, and hey, all likeliness it's a pile of people with executive dysfunction.
Organize a meeting, maybe over video calls. Start mapping things out in a shared document (maybe on a CryptPad), look at everyone's options.
You might have to split the party, at least eventually.
Start now. Please don't wait. Know your options.
Help those who need help.
Thank you.