I have never seen a man who says he's worried about "the death of masculinity" who wasn't actually concerned with the loss of his fake superiority.
No one is saying you should stop being strong or rugged or handsome or hard working or whatever.
We're saying you don't have the right to make more money than we do for the same work. We're saying you don't have the right to tell us what to do with our lives and our bodies.
If that's a problem then yeah, you are a loser and a failure and a whiny little Nazi boy waiting to happen.
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