@lcamtuflcamtuf 
nice post. To me, the crux of the issue is with the concept of limit itself. "Converges at infinity" is really bad framing (just like defining the derivative in terms of tangents is a missed chance).
We can see that a sequence of numbers goes somewhere without needing to bring in infinity.
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