I've read this piece recently by an Electron maintainer that makes the case for why Electron is (still) a good choice and stands behind it.
https://felixrieseberg.com/things-people-get-wrong-about-electron/
Still, the numbers just don't lie... Consider Matrix clients. The resource hog is just obscene for any Electron option compared to a native or Tauri alternative.
Maybe it's just me and my aging machines that I run slim stacks on to get stuff done? And the answer is to increase power? What a sad, unsustainable answer to arrive at.