I still remember this. One of the things that really challenged me, and my ideas about gender early on was Iggy Pop in a dress.
It wasn't so much him in the dress that did it, it was what he said about it.
I'm not ashamed to dress "like a woman" because I don't think it's shameful to be a woman.
Once I internalized that, I started recognizing it as a key to understanding bigotry.
