@phildini 
@offby1Chris is. 
@webologyJeff Triplett I earnestly do not know how to strike this balance in a way that feels comfortable. Maybe it’s just not supposed to ever feel comfortable, but it sucks that so many of these choices are so fraught, and even the balance of harm reduction is often a multivariate calculus problem
@glyph @offby1Chris is. @webologyJeff Triplett it will never feel comfortable so long as the comfortable paths are run by fascists.
Do the best you can and for godssake write it down so you can look back and realize what you’ve done instead of chastising yourself for not being perfect.
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