i remember the worst mod decision i've ever been a part of was a huge discussion in the mod channel of a kink friendly discord full of people i know from tumblr. Someone who's Jewish had posted about wanting to have someone wearing full Nazi memorabilia dominate them. it caused quite a stir on whether or not that was allowed within the space and a bunch of problematic kink discourse. I mean, I still will never forget thinking to myself "Am I really going to have to be the one that tells a Jewish person their Hitler/Nazi kink is a bit too extreme for the server and it's making the knife play people uncomfortable"