You could use Bridgy Fed to convince folks on ATProto why ActivityPub is better and point them to Bounce so they can migrate without losing their network.
Disengaging is counter-productive to success. You don't win hearts by ignoring them.
I believe in building things that help users make decisions that are right for them, not looking down on their choices and writing them off wholesale
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