I used to characterize my safety in life as being a consequence of being better at many things than other people
And as much as that is materially somewhat true in our current system, it's unhealthy as hell to base so much in your own psyche on comparison with others. (Luckily the really toxic behaviors that can stem from this I rarely exhibited outwardly, but I did a lot of damage to myself)
So now I realize I am legitimately amazing at certain things, and I would like to find more ways to help others be amazing at some of those things too