Something to chew on, this Pride month:
As a cis and/or hetero person, you don't have to understand how it feels to be gay, pan, or ace, to be trans, enby, genderfluid or any other identity or orientation. You don't need to intellectually "get" it. It doesn't have to make sense to you.
There's nothing more to it than taking people's word for how they feel, and standing alongside them, as they simply live their lives as themselves.
Much love 