Hackers' Pub

Syntax	Description	Examples
`"` keyword `"`	Finds the string within quotes, including spaces. Case-insensitive. (Escape quotes inside with `\"`)	`"Hackers' Pub"`
`from:` handle	Finds content written by the specified user.	`from:hongminhee` `from:hongminhee@hollo.social`
`lang:` ISO 639-1	Finds content written in the specified language.	`lang:en`
`#` tag	Finds content with the specified tag. Case-insensitive.	`#HackersPub`
condition condition	Finds content that satisfies both conditions on either side of the space (logical AND).	`"Hackers' Pub" lang:en`
condition `OR` condition	Finds content that satisfies at least one of the conditions on either side of the OR operator (logical OR).	`#HackersPub OR "Hackers' Pub" lang:en`
`(` condition `)`	Combines the operators within the parentheses first.	`(#HackersPub OR "Hackers' Pub" OR "Hackers Pub") lang:en`

Shauna GM @shauna@social.coop

4/28/2025, 1:37:08 PM

Public

@presleypizzo.bsky.socialPresley Pizzo

This part's my favorite!

'Needs ≠ Strategies

People’s true needs are generally compatible with each other. But their strategies for meeting their needs can be incompatible.

Domination and exploitation are not true needs. Whenever someone seeks to dominate or exploit, look for the true need hiding behind that strategy.'

Shauna GM @shauna@social.coop

4/28/2025, 1:37:40 PM

Public

@presleypizzo.bsky.socialPresley Pizzo

'Projecting ≠ Overreacting

Sometimes we have a big emotional reaction to a small slight because it activates feelings from the past.

When this happens, you’re not overreacting; you’re reacting the right amount but to the wrong thing.

Your feelings are valid, but some of them are about the past. Punishing the person that reminded you of them will not heal them.'

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