2. yeah it's a catholic thing, it's not really about being "Vegetarian" so much as it is that latin draws distinction between warm and cold blooded animals, and "carnis" was eaten for celebratory purposes, but not the flesh of cold blooded animals, so it's about giving up nice things.
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