The claims in this post are from a blog post written by one of the devs of Fermi, a client for Stoat competitor Spacebar. I haven't fact-checked this yet, so take with a grain of salt;

blog.fermi.chat/discordAlts/re

Although it's technically possible to self-host Stoat, the client apps are hardcoded to point to stoat.chat, not your instance. Also a bunch of the code it depends on is under proprietary (Source Available?) licenses, and can be hard to find, as it's not all in one repo.

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There's a massive opportunity here, for someone to build a UX that would be comfortable for someone used to Discord. 100% Free Code, and connected to a federated server that can provide all the necessary functionality. Whether that's using;

* XMPP for interop with the Jabber network,

* Meg/Olm for interop with Matrix rooms

* ActivityPub for interop with the forumverse (Lemmy, PieFed, Discourse, nodeBB, etc).

* Something else(?)

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