@tante I, for one, enjoyed the write-up.
As you, I do plenty of things that I either cannot morally or ethically defend or simply am ignorant of the harms of.
For other technology, I am either pressured to use it (by government or similar institutions) or I can at least use it 'for good' (facilitating some other good - in current case, student administration) and also make a living.
For LLMs, I fail to see the redeeming qualities that make the compromise 'worth it'. It's all nett negatives.