This topic is mired in big feelings, so I tend to avoid publicly writing about it, but I've been revisiting this topic in conversations with friends recently. So instead of continuing to copy-paste my thoughts to friends in private, I decided to publish a thing.

If you have thoughts, please feel free to comment, reply, message me, etc... but, given the big feelings that I often see around this topic: please also remember to be kind.

treyhunner.com/2026/02/on-the-

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