What is Hackers' Pub?

Hackers' Pub is a place for software engineers to share their knowledge and experience with each other. It's also an ActivityPub-enabled social network, so you can follow your favorite hackers in the fediverse and get their latest posts in your feed.

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ロッド・スチュワートの「セイリング」がニッポンの結婚式では感動的なエンディングの時に必ず流れる理由ですなあ(;´Д`)>BT
わりと有名だけどあの歌詞って「いま私は死にます」って内容ですよねー。
まあ、トランプも「Born In The U.S.A. 」をアメリカ万歳の曲だと思ってるらしいから、みんなわりと歌詞の内容を気にしていないのかもしれない。
DEVOの「ビューティフルワールド」のMVとかインセルが見たら大喜びするんじゃなかろうか。
皮肉はある程度の知能が無いと通じないものだということを僕はこれらの曲から学んだ(;´Д`)

It's a beautiful world
For you, for you, for you
It′s not for me

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하지만 찔렀죠? 헌법학적 흉기를 들고 설쳤다는 사실을 자술하고 있습니다. 그리고 거 어지간한 진검은 꺼내 쓰기는 커녕 무단 소지만 해도 처벌받는 게 한국법 아니던가.

RE: https://bsky.app/profile/did:plc:uabkr6tn7ru4b4e5e6udleuf/post/3lncudfc4q22g

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最近很少分享女兒的事情,因為她現在整體穩定許多,就比較沒什麼好分享的了😆。另外,我之前在書店翻教養相關的書籍,其中一本書是在教怎麼跟青春期的小孩對話,看到一句話覺得對我相當有幫助,大意是:

「每一階段的成長都伴隨著副作用」

先撇開小孩子的個體個性差異,在 2~4 歲是必定會有不要不要期、容易生氣… 等等的行為,這就是成長的副作用;國高中生易有叛逆行為,這就是成長的副作用。照顧者只能接受那些副作用,沒有別的竅門,就只能是熬過去,有一天副作用就消失了,然後小孩子就長大啦!

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mh+, blocking, abuse psychology, long

i think that usually, blocking and then posting about it means that the block was intended as a form of public moral judgement. i do those too sometimes when reply-guy randoms show up from nowhere and dump huge loads of anger in my mentions. it's a decent way of processing it (and i usually do need to process it), at least for as long as it's "punching upwards"

the "not naming names" public shaming thing is something I've talked about before, like when admins quote incoming reports and argue about them publicly. it's a thing i saw a lot of in politics too, a kind of master suppression technique building on oneself having more informal and often also formal power than the other, meant to intimidate others from disagreeing with you. "look what happens if you talk back to me"

but anyway, i hardly ever post about blocking someone when it's for my own mental health, which is like… nearly all of my blocks so far. why would i draw attention to wanting to avoid all contact with someone? that could cause drama and draw their attention, which is what i'm trying to avoid, right?

some people still notice and get upset by being quietly blocked and start subtooting about it, in much the same manner as those who are blocking others as a power play

and here's something that will probably seem alien to a lot of people: it's always such a relief when that subtooting begins!

it's one of my most problematic flaws that i'm so intensely afraid of accidentally making someone feel rejected for no good reason, and that includes them feeling rejected by them blocking me. no i'm not kidding. this is what i was shaped into. it's the core trait that "made me" into a repeat relationship abuse victim, for example. i "make" people with invasive tendencies become uniquely abusive, by not setting the boundaries they need. so this is not about me being "too nice" at all. and i'm likely never going to fully get rid of this dependent personality style no matter what i do. i just have to learn how to deal with it

so i'm happy to have come this far now that when the subtooting begins, it dispels all those toxic feelings of me somehow causing needless harm: this really wasn't someone i should have been in contact with in the first place. to phrase it in the least ableist way i can think of: we're ultimately incompatible

i need to put way more trust in my "kelpian" sixth sense

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煮菜的時候很討厭這個很像解剖課的部分,相信很多人也都很討厭所以感覺現在切得漂漂亮亮又包裝得很乾淨的葷類越來越多了,但是同時也覺得現代人常常可以毫無罪惡感的浪費食物有一部分就是因為和食物的由來距離太遠了,很難有「這道菜是來自某個其他動物的生命喔」的想珍惜著吃的心情吧。
總之今天煮得蠻成功的我很開心,花枝好好吃 :ablobhungry:

砧板上已經清理乾淨但還沒切的花枝跟櫛瓜、彩椒、番茄一起煮完的花枝
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집에 와보니 내가 죽어있었다.

'죽음' 이라는 단어의 의미란 무엇일까?

어렸을 때가 아니면 거의 사용하지 않게되는 표준국어대사전에 의하면 죽음이란 '죽는 일. 생물의 생명이 없어지는 현상을 이른다.' 라고 말하고 있다.

일반적으로, 사실 거의 모든 사람들은 2번째 의미를 '죽음' 이라는 단어의 의미라고 생각 할 것이다.

하지만, 많은 사람들이 그럼에도 불구하고 사랑했던 가족. 친구. 작가. 가수. 배우. 정치인. 직장동료. 선생님. 등 여러 사람들에 대하여
"그 사람은 죽었지만, 아직 내 마음속에 항상 같이 살아가고 있어." 와 같은 말을 하곤 한다.

죽었는데 살아갈 수 있다면, 반대로 살아있음에도 죽어있을 수 있지 않을까?

그저 챗바퀴 같은 삶을 반복하며, 아무에게도 기억되지 않고, 아무도 찾아주지 않는 나.

오늘도 집에 와보니 내가 죽어있었다.

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有個名為摘錄(Clips)的功能,簡單說這是一種針對貼文分類與收藏的功能,而且能收藏遠端的貼文。

原本還不太清楚這個功能的用處,但因為我經常會發 gpose 的貼文,如果要找過去發過的貼文用標籤或關鍵字搜尋會找到其他人發的。後來發現此功能的用法就覺得非常方便,而且在站內,被摘錄的貼文下方會顯示這個貼文是被收藏在那個公開的摘錄中,可以直接查看相關的內容。

這個功能是 Misskey 獨有的,
也沒有類似的功能。

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