Traditional commercial social networks:
"My milkshake is better than yours!"
Fediverse:
"I'll teach you how to make a milkshake, and you keep the milk."
Commercial asocial networks:
"My milkshake is better than yours!" gets like a million hostile comments from angered people.
Fediverse:
"I'll teach you how to make a great milkshake" gets like a thousand boosts and favorites, and also a large number of replies with suggestions for alternatives and improvements that people can try.
If you have a fediverse account, you can quote this note from your own instance. Search https://social.mkj.earth/users/mkj/statuses/115859108340052482 on your instance and quote it. (Note that quoting is not supported in Mastodon.)