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My wife is training to be a therapist, and she spent a lot of time observing my interactions with my Chinese family. We always joke that many southern Chinese people are basically emotionally stunted. Can’t talk about feelings.

Instead of talking about feelings, and openly resolving conflict, everything gets funneled through acts of care. Primarily food.

If I’m upset at my mom, she will never say sorry, but she will cook me something. My parents were devastatingly upset when we decided to move to San Francisco, but we couldn’t talk about it: I just had to feed them until their anger subsided. (Oysters helped)

When my grandma died (I was very close to her), my parents were so afraid to ask how I’m feeling about it, but they silently cooked me a meal everyday that was a dish that she would have cooked for me. When they came to visit, there was a lot of eating together, but no talking about feelings. Finally, before they left they said, we know you aren’t coming back home.

But that was the only emotional thing I’d ever heard them say, and even then it was a thing they said and then ran away quickly from (literally, into a cab to the airport)

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아니 트럼프 이 색기갘ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ 미국에 가해지는 관세율이 아니라 그냥 대미수입/수출 나눈 수치잖앜ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ

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これはそのとおりだなぁ.家庭菜園いいよね.

俺はブロッコリーは,市場で打っているザ・ブロッコリーみたいなカシっと固まった塊は好きじゃなくて,あれを畑で放置しておくと茎が伸びてきて,花が咲き始めるんだけど,そのくらいのブロッコリーが好きなんよ.ブロッコリーはアブラナ科なんだけど,本当にアブラナみたいに伸びてきて花が咲くのね.その花が咲くか咲かないかくらいの状態のブロッコリーがすごい好きなんだけど,そんなもの店では売ってないのよ.あれは自分の家で作ってて,食べるのが間に合わなくて収穫が遅くなったところでしか食べられない.
そういう意味不明なこだわりを実現できるのが家庭菜園です.
ちなみにアブラナも花が咲き始めてちょっと苦くなってからの方が美味い,でも売ってない.
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これはそのとおりだなぁ.家庭菜園いいよね.

俺はブロッコリーは,市場で打っているザ・ブロッコリーみたいなカシっと固まった塊は好きじゃなくて,あれを畑で放置しておくと茎が伸びてきて,花が咲き始めるんだけど,そのくらいのブロッコリーが好きなんよ.ブロッコリーはアブラナ科なんだけど,本当にアブラナみたいに伸びてきて花が咲くのね.その花が咲くか咲かないかくらいの状態のブロッコリーがすごい好きなんだけど,そんなもの店では売ってないのよ.あれは自分の家で作ってて,食べるのが間に合わなくて収穫が遅くなったところでしか食べられない.
そういう意味不明なこだわりを実現できるのが家庭菜園です.
ちなみにアブラナも花が咲き始めてちょっと苦くなってからの方が美味い,でも売ってない.
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Continuing From the Tradition i have set on my old wet dry world account i have written this post on a TCL Flip phone running android 11 Using kt9. Attached is proof of my swag and gaming. I am not writing alt text on this fucking thing

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Fediverseの個人サーバって、家庭菜園みたいなものでね、

流通とか市場価格に振り回されたりとか、安全性の確保とか、本当に欲しいものを自分で育てるとか、他人に任せて不満を受け入れるのではなく、自分で努力して自給自足の生活を送るってことなんだ。

そんなに手間はかけられないし、買って来た方がいいよ、って選択をする人の方が多いけどね。

Fediverseの家庭菜園は、こだわりのポイントを紹介したり、ノウハウを情報交換したり、成長過程を記録して人にみせたり、収穫の喜びをわかちあったり、なんならちょっとだけ市場に出して売り買いしたり、そういうコミュニケーションが都会の人達といつでもできて、一人きりにならない仕組みが整備されてる。

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As always, we have two discussion calls scheduled for this month:

- A day and a half from now starting at 1PM EDT on April 4th
- A week from now starting at 9PM EDT on April 9th

The Conference Chats community has a lot of tech conference and meetup organizers, but it's open to anyone interested in community organizing regardless of experience level and subject matter. Find more info, a calendar, and links to join at conferencechats.org/.

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tdealternatives added to umbrella.

It is a new control module to easily manage alternatives for deb/rpm-based distributions. It is available under the "System Administration" category.

PSB/PTB packages are already available on the mirrors.

Screenshot of tdealternatives module
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台湾腐女给大罢免的新标语是BL就是政治生活
好支持这句话……好支持这句话!我不能在我的家里出门就买无删减BL小说,不能不挂梯子就看到有荤有素的BL文,不能看同性恋电影电视剧,都是这个政治非要来入侵我的生活的错

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The recording of the April 2nd, 2025 Production User Call is up:

youtu.be/fWhMVar8_Aw

We discussed testing the latest OpenZFS on FreeBSD, auditing user activity/hot spots on a file system using zfs diff, Fast Data Transfer (FDT), VMware licensing, font conversion, and more!

Please help support Rob's libzfs work with a Ko-fi donation:

despairlabs.com/sponsor/

Or reach out to Rob there or via robn.au/ for additional payment mechanisms.

We also discussed how you can help with OpenZFS reviews! You do not need a CS degree to check the spelling or say if documentation is clear! In fact it helps to have a fresh perspective!

github.com/openzfs/zfs/pulls

Thank you!

"Don't forget to slam those Like and Subscribe buttons."

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one night, hot springs 트랜스여성이 온천을 가보는 내용을 다룬 인디게임입니다. 저도 정말 재미있게 플레이했었구요. 이 게임이 러시아에서 '비전통적 성관계, 소아성애, 성전환 조장'이라는 이유로 차단될 것이라는 내용입니다. 이 게임은 트랜스여성이 친구들과 온천을 가는 내용이지 섹슈얼한 내용은 전혀 나오지 않고 등장 캐릭터들도 모두 성인인데요...

RE: https://bsky.app/profile/did:plc:nbzzbakkvt7s2322eu4hihry/post/3llusetpqe22z

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